Work With Me

As Divorce Alchemist, I recognize that you may be in a state of temporary turmoil due to a major life transition: Divorce.
Traveling this difficult road with an experienced, skilled and supportive guide optimizes your journey of renewal and rebirth. 

Do you want to …
  • Be heard and encouraged to clarify what you want
  • Make level-headed decisions that will benefit you for years to come
  • Be prepared to work efficiently with attorneys, which will save you time and money
  • Successfully navigate the emotional roller-coaster into self-acceptance, self-love, trust and forgiveness 
  • Stay hopeful throughout the process, explore new mindsets & habits and thrive post-divorce

I can help you achieve this!

4-Step Process from Pain to Gain

  1. Discovery session.  We will explore your unique situation including your current perspectives, your values, your wants, your dreams and the barriers that hold you back on the path to personal growth & intended divorce outcomes. 
  2. Goal and vision setting. Identifying and following a vision, an intention, and a path forward will help you maintain focus, stability, clarity and hope as you navigate one of the most difficult times in your life. 
  3. Guiding you on your path. We will utilize various tools and methodologies to optimize outcomes. We will address current developments as they arise.
  4. Keeping you on track. This includes accountability, homework and unlimited support in-between sessions. 

Tools and Methodologies

During our sessions we will:

  • Explore new perspectives and mindsets
  • Discover possibilities
  • Reframe your current viewpoints
  • Befriend your inner saboteurs
  • Process emotions to free up space for joy
  • Role-play
  • Tune into your body-mind-heart connection
  • Challenge your assumptions and re-write stories
  • Employ ‘powerful questions’ to explore your wants and roadblocks
  • Clarify legal process so that you know what to expect
  • Practice mindfulness, self-care, and staying present

We will rejoice in both incremental and substantial progress as both are transformational.

Divorce Coaching is Therapeutic

Most of my clients work with both a therapist and a coach. In fact, a divorce coach is the missing link between a therapist (a generalist whose work is based in the past) and a lawyer. As a trained professional, I respect the boundaries of other professionals involved in the process, such as lawyers, mediators and financial experts. Unlike a mediator or family therapist, however, a divorce coach is not neutral, and wholeheartedly supports the client’s needs.

The divorce coaching process is a therapeutic experience. There will be sadness, processing of emotions, much compassion, joy, empathy, encouragement, accountability, and – yes – tears (the cathartic kind)! You will feel heard, understood and acknowledged. You will find divorce coaching very supportive, explorative, and motivating.

My Clients

I coach individuals, men and women, in any stage of the divorce or post-divorce process.

Timeline

Because change happens over time, a commitment of approximately 3 to 6 months is typically needed. This allows the coaching relationship to develop and be powerful so that we may work through to the other side. Sessions take place via Zoom, phone, or in-person.

Pricing

Coaching packages are designed to help you successfully navigate the divorce and are tailored to meet your individual needs. Given the process, 3-month, 6-month and annual packages are most effective and efficient. Monthly packages and hourly consultations are also available. Packages include unlimited support in-between sessions so that you feel fully supported on your journey as new developments unexpectedly arise.  I invite you to contact me to find out if we are right for each other and what pricing is best for you.